Sunday, July 20, 2014

Occupation: Homemaker

At a recent trip to the doctor, I actually read my admission sheet for the first time in a long time.  On the third line, there was a spot calling for occupation.  I had a strong reaction to what was written in that small space.  It called me a homemaker.  A homemaker?!?  The independent part of me wanted to tell her she had made a mistake.  I am actually an education consultant.  And I do a mighty fine job of it, thank you very much.  But truth be told, it's been a year since I've done any consulting.

The competitive part of me wanted to tell her that actually, I am a stay-at-home-mom who chases after two very active boys.  And I do a mighty fine job of it, thank you very much.

Then the very small part of me that is actually rationale spoke up and whispered to me that it doesn't matter what someone wrote down on a piece of paper as my occupation.  What matters is what I actually DO.

I try to pump my kids up with good stuff so that they continue to go, go, go!  This isn't always easy, and it's usually quite messy these days.

Did any cherry actually make it into his belly?

I try to be very aware that Ryan is different from Thomas and allow him his space to do what he wants and needs to do to grow into a different, but wonderful little boy.
Uh, Ryan...if that's how you want to sit, then far be it from me!
Catch anything?
I try to provide a little structure for their together time so that Ryan doesn't get tackled, smushed, dropped, or crushed by his loving big brother.



I try my best to manage their health, deciding when it's time to go to the doctor and when we can get away with some Children's Tylenol.  Recent decisions: Ryan's top teeth coming in accompanied by a runny nose, cough, and some crying in the night-Tylenol, some ice in a bag to gnaw on and some hard crackers.
 

The two ticks that I have found on Ryan this summer-careful removal and observation (no Tylenol). 

The hives that appeared all over Thomas' body one morning-doctor's visit!  Doc tells us that there have been a few kids in to her office with hives like this. She is attributing it to a virus.  Solution: Benadryl.

Supporting Thomas' lawn tractor addiction seems a lot less harmless than some other children's addictions (tv, Barney, video games), so I try to frequent the lawn tractor section of Lowes.





We (I) cannot stay outside all day, so we create opportunities to learn, develop fine motor skills, and creativity inside.
One of my favorite activities: baking!
Painting the leaves to look like Fall leaves


Add making dinners, breakfasts and lunches, a little housework, some landscaping work, and I guess that homemaker is indeed my current occupation.  Best to embrace it!



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